Bless you all for all advice. Just got home(again), MIL leg is slightly swollen, but she is at her home and getting her blood thinner. Sitters are another story, won't go into all that yet,but lets just say next weekend I won't be the nice guy. MIL will not be in a pig sty again. Talked with nephew, he says he has no problem with us going to attorney. Stated have attorney if possible draft paperwork stating he relinquishes all rights to the home. If we want to sell and bring MIL home, thats fine. Says we have been through enough. I want to believe him, and will do so at this time. Will call the attorney for appointment monday. So we will see. So thank you, all of you. I came home tired but a little more hopeful.