I find him rather nasty sometime, and the guy is a retired minister for heavens sake. He does things (deliberately? I think deliberately...) to try to "make a woman" do something they do not wish to do. I get this feeling from him that it somehow provides him satisfaction, as though belittling a woman makes the man bigger. This I refuse to participate in. So he threw his dirty underwear on the floor again today. They were dirty after missing the Chinese takeout container he pees in while in bed and peeing in the bed again... rather than wearing disposable underwear OR getting up and using the toilet like he really can still do, but NO, he pees in bed!!!!!!!!!...then I am washing laundry...well they can just stay dirty today to hell with him...this is part of the reason I am planning to put both gma and gpa in some daycare--they will get him in the disposables for me--I already discussed it with them...so I told him we had already discussed where the dirty clothes need to go, and we had talked about this quite a few times and he was expected (by me, not the beaten down and now AD gma...which we think the stress he kept her under may have made her vulnerable to this disease) to put his dirty clothes in the dirty clothes basket. That goes for his nasty "big red handkerchief" that wipes EVERYTHING too! So he starts hollerin' to God to take him now and raising his arms towards heaven rather than pick up his dirty underwear and I started hollerin' a bit myself...God spare me!! Take him PLEASE!!! (Not wanting to be outdone as dramaqueen) So poor gma--she seems to revel in being belittled as though Jesus hated women or something (her being the good minister's wife and all) but of course Jesus actually held women UP so I do not know where they get this Patriarchal so-called Christian thing from but which ever book it is in, I wish they would read a different book...so now we have gotten in another fight and I told him if he wants to throw his dirty clothes on the floor he can go to the NH and do it. Of course, he won't go and of course poor beaten down gpa picked up his dirty underwear out of the bathtub after he threw them at the dirty clothes basket and missed. Isn't it supposed to be the AD patient that is hard to work with??????? Isn't it????????????????????????????????????????? Jeez.