5 months after his debilitating stroke, my Dad passed away peacefully at 1.30am 16th July 2009. He was 6weeks off his 90th birthday, and celebrated 66th Wedding Anniversary in May. Mum is quiet and seems pensive, some smiles and kisses, not many words atm. She has a nurse with her morning and evening who will attend the funeral with her on Tuesday. Mum will be in her gel chair so comfortable. Thank you all
Mum's Funeral tomorrow. I jammed all of Dad and Mum's things in a big chest, no sorting till I feel like it. I have felt much more settled since I did that. Had lunch today with my Mum's sister, I'm her namesake, it was very comforting for us both to spend the time together.
So very sorry for your loss, again, dear. I'm happy they are united but it must leave you absolutely with the wind out of your sails! Please take things very easy - while chores must be done, it takes time to sort all the personal things out. Try not to push yourself too hard - this is VERY tough!
My sincerest condolences. Lighting a candle for you and yours...
"She ain't heavy; she's my mother." Mom got her wings 11/18/2008
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There are many stories floating around about husbands and wives who pass away very close together. Even through the very stressful times that all long term couples share, some people just cannot bear being apart.
To love beyond breath.
Would that we all are fortunate enough to experience that emotion.
Thanks Opinionated am trying to look after myself. I feel so odd, thought a glass of red wine might help. I am in shock, surrounded by my parents belongings. There is the final layer of sorting Dad's belongings from his room last month, I haven't been moving very fast, now Boxes from Mum's room all around my loungeroom. Thank Goodness all my siblings have involved themselves in dealing with all arrangements for the funeral, speeches,ID, photos, music. because I feel completely dazed atm.
My Mother passed away peacefully in her sleep yesterday morning 5.30am 13th August. Mum fractured her hip 4 weeks after Dad had his stroke and passed away 28 days after him. they were married for 66years in May,and only in this past 6 months have they not shared a room. I feel Dad called her to come cook him something good to eat. I feel very mixed emotionally. Shocked but not surprised. I am glad we had the opportunity to provide them with the best of care in their last years, and take comfort that they are together. I am very grateful to have found this site, it has helped me through some very grey times.
Thank You all for your kindnesses. He had a very nice funeral service yesterday and we had a lovely evening around a fire with music, close friends and family. A lovely celebration of a good mans life.
So sorry about your dad. Just lost Mom July 17th. I know this next few days will be rough on you, as i'm there right now. Hang tight, and remember to breath.
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