hello,i am Dave ,The lady (Wendy) i care for, i met on the internet at an adult site.
She invited me to come over from Melbourne to Adelaide to meet her,i worked a 9 day fortnight so i went over to Adelaide the following week when i had my days off.I stayed there for 4 days and when i was coming home ,Wendy came home with me and stayed.This is our story of how i Wendy's carer.
I used to work as a security officer,doing security for films and soap opera's,that was until my darling Wendy had a stroke,after 3 months in the western hospital ,she went to rehab at the sunshine hospital,3 weeks into her rehab it was found that she had an arachnoid cyst compressing her spinal chord and i was told without an operation she would be cripple whithin 2 years.so there was really no choice but to operate.after she had recovered from the operation she was sent to caulfeild spinal rehab unit and spent quite a while there,she was finally released from hospital 8 months after having her stroke.she has been going to sunshine hospital as an out patient since her release from hospital (6 months).
2 weeks ago she had an epileptic seizure,she was put on a new medication,that makes 46 tablets a day,sure it gets hard,i do sometimes want to just cry but i never wonder why this has happened to us.
i am not a really religious person ,but i do believe i was picked to look after this loving sweet lady and in december we are going to get married,i do get very stressed at times ,but i feel very lucky that i have been picked to do this job,it is a privilidge to look after Wendy and i am looking forward to her becoming my wife.

mar,bunny thankyou for your kind words and i will keep you updated on wendy,i am very lucky to have her........

Dave, Welcome and congratulations on your upcoming wedding! Wendy is very lucky to have you to travel the road together and help. Like BG posted keep us posted and feel free to come and talk, vent or just say HI.

Dave welcome in...Sounds like a tough road you have been on and you've handled it with grace. What a guy! I am humbled when I hear stories like this! And congratulations on the upcoming nuptuals. Keep us posted on Wendy, what a truly lucky lady to have a man like you in her corner!