Have not posted because my story is so horrible no one would believe. Took care of Mom with dementia and Parkinson's for three years. Siblings used DHS Oklahoma to empty all monies including a take over of social security, her mail and her insurance. I made it to court and was appointed Guardian but Mom died a month later and DHS nor Social Security said they could do a thing. Have everything proving forgery and just some evil stuff but decided to just forget it. I already spent $35,000.00 of my own money trying to protect Mom and could not.

This is the problem now. I helped my Mom take care of my handicapped metally retarded Aunt for over 30 years. When all of Mom troubles were going on I drove my Aunt to Colorado for safe keeping. After Mom died my Aunt begged me to bring her back to Oklahoma, so I did. She has so many friends and support here.

She has lived in a house with three bedrooms of which two are used for my internet business. I have two employees who help with my Aunt and work on the internet. When the trouble happened before, the siblings also took over my Aunt's social security so this time, when I brought her back, I told my Aunt's sister, to be her POA and use her money only for her groc, hair, paying someone to cook, etc. She could live without help on rent, utilites, etc.

This is the problem this time. Instead of accusing me of doing anything, the siblings are accusing my caregiver. With my Mom I lost my caregivers as one sibling is crazy and broke into my home and hurt one. She even hounded the doctor until he quit.

My Aunt has been on a product called Mannatech for three years now and has regular check ups, which the nurse says she wishes her blood work looked like my Aunts.

No, I do not live in the Soviet Union, I live in Oklahoma. The police would never do anything. They said it was civil.

My Aunt is checked once a month by DHS of Oklahoma and have a lady bathe her five days a week. I have three ladies from the church who check on her and with the other two caregivers and myself, my Aunt could not be abused with someone knowing. She also wears a button around her neck in case she would fall and I have round the clock security on the house.

When the Adult Protection lady came last week, I was so mad I told her to get in her car, go to her office, fill out anything she wanted and go to the court as I was not playing their game again. From her questions to my other caregiver, I knew who called in the report and I told her that my Aunt cries everytime she is made to talk about this person, since she lost her home, was visited by them daily and received letters talking bad about my Mom and I. I asked her to visit with the DHS people who right now are working with my Aunt as her investigation is down right abuse to my Aunt and I won't allow it.

This happened in Kay County and it seems every attorney that was involved in this has either been appointed a judge or works now for the DHS.

My sibling has been discribed as a "socialpath" and they are right in that anyone who tried to help my Mom, received hate letters including the attorneys and judges.

Without moving her back to Colorado, does anyone know any law protection which would not include the DHS or Social Security? By the way, Mom's attorney was appointed temporary Guardian for Mom and DHS, Social Security, the Police all ignored him as well. He said it was the most evil thing he ever saw and he has been head of the bar association for years.

This may only be in God's hands and if so, I do know how to trust Him. One day at a time, through forgiveness, working through the grief and just deciding to one day do all I can to help others not experience this.

I must waite however, because right now, I need to do everything to help my Aunt.

I have requested a wonderful Doctor evaluate my Aunt, who the DHS does use. Maybe he will have wisdom on if this will hurt my Aunt again.

Gracious, I don't know what to say. Between APS and the lawyers already involved, I would think the bases would be be covered. It might be to your advantage to call the APS worker, deeply apologise and ask her to please come back quickly. You need her. They can help you .

Hi Bobcat,
I do have two wonderful ladies from DHS who check monthly on what my Aunt needs and how she is doing, but they are in a totally different department. This lady is from Adult Protection and even when I took my Aunt to them before, they never called us. And because they did not, I took her to Colorado.

I found out later, that group went to court to have another Guardian appointed from DHS for my Aunt. If I find they try to do this again, and the Lord allows, I will go to the TV networks as I have had all proof I need, including the lady who witnessed it.

By the way, these siblings live over an hour drive from our town. Sure wish I could find out who at DHS is involved in hidding this.

Hey Bobcat,
Just a quick question. Why would you say I need them? Would I not too be guilty of abuse if I allowed them to ask her the same questions they asked my other caregiver. In fact, my employee caregiver was very upset, she said the lady acted like she was trying to put words in her mouth. When she said good things about me, the lady said is she in the room and my employee said no, she works from home.

I have not hired an attorney for my Aunt yet but maybe I should huh?

Hey Bobcat,
Decided to do as you said and you were very right. Case worker said this went all the way to the top including the Senator.

They had no idea the amount of support people I had involved since she came back to Oklahoma.

I tried to get them to stop. Today I also gave her all the proof that if DHS decides to use, will put them in jail for many years or at least maybe they will never bother us again.