Hello,

My soon to be mother in law is in her late 60's and has always been careless about her money spending. After my fiances dad died she was giving away money left and right. She took reversed mortgages out, bought people cars, did really radical things. Now there are these "friends" that are constantly around. She is in "love" with one of them (he is forty and I've heard him comment about the money) and we feel they are leading her on for money even though they say they are not. His mom thinks we are trying to control her and says they are great people, etc. I was wondering if theresany hope tha we can convince her that they are not really there for her.